I've learned that you cannot make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them. I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back. I've learnd that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,it doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. I've learned it takes years to build up trust, and only second to destroy it. I've learned that it's not what you have in your life, but whom you have in your life that counts. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are but we are responsible for who we become. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you. I've learned that sometimes when i am angry, i have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they are going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that just because two people argue it doesn,t mean they don,t love each other, and just because they don,t argue it doesn't mean that they do. And Last but not the least I've learned you can keep going long after u can't.